When We Think We Know How…

13 thoughts on “When We Think We Know How…”

  1. How do we keep our energy high and the positive vibration and thoughts, when what we see is something we don’t want to see.
    Ex: I opened my facebook and I saw something that I was avoiding to see ( I pic of the person I want to attract with a possible date. I know that in some point I attracted the situation where I was going to see that). Well, the thing happened and the first feeling was not that good. Minutes later, I was pretending that wasn’t bodering me. But I it was. So, I figured out that I don’t know yet how to “clean” this and let it go this situation and feel it was fine.

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    1. Dear Sam, this is also a form of resistance. You don’t believe 100% that you two are in a relationship yet and you resisted this particular possible event so much that you manifested it, as you saw. When you put emotion into anything, you have the power to manifest it. I believe you’re still focusing on your current reality, which you simply have to accept, be grateful for and focus on your desired reality in order to change your vibration and manifest your dream.
      Dr. Wayne Dyer said, “Keep reminding yourself: I get what I think about, whether I want it or not.” And he was right.
      Osho said, “Get out of your head and get into your heart. Think less, feel more.” Great advice, especially considering that many try to use their minds even when they should just fill themselves with heart energy.

      My favorite way of dealing with resistance is to say “I am loving away the resistance. I am grateful it appeared because it helped me discover what I fear. This is nothing and I already have what I want. Thank you.” That simple line makes me feel better and then, I am able to have a clear mind and a clear perspective. When resistance comes up, all you have to do is reaffirm that you still want what you had asked for and be grateful for it. When you do this, your heart energy explodes!
      Another way of dealing with resistance (and I wanna write an article about this) is to put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Imagine if the other person was the one manifesting you back and let’s say you know it. However, you feel that you need to take a little bit of time before you get back together. What would attract you in the other person’s behavior and their attitude towards you? You would appreciate that they allowed you what you need. You would wanna see that they can have fun without you, which is a very attractive quality. You would wanna see that happy spark in them and wonder where it came from. And once you did get back together, would anything else really matter? Probably not. Being accepting of your current situation makes you feel relaxed and then, turns the situation around immediately.

      In truth, resistance is easy to deal with when you become convinced that your desire is yours. You know what I mean – you did this the first time you manifested a relationship with your special someone. When you KNOW it’s yours, resistance falls away and the events start happening in your favor immediately. This is an even better way of dealing with resistance. Just focus on your dream and beyond the one time of shortly saying that you are loving away the resistance, keep the focus on your dream. Expect that your dream is coming!
      Regardless, I want to show you three more articles I believe will help you see that resistance is easy to deal with and can be easily overcome:
      Also, the article you recently read, Stop Sabotaging Yourself and Start Believing, keep that one close and read it at least twice a day. If you’re willing, even more than that. Read it until you memorize it 🙂 When you adopt the text in it as true for yourself, you will raise your vibration quickly.


      1. Focus on current reality is exactly what I’m doing.
        I’m afraid of checking any social media and see what I don’t wanna see. And I know I’m putting too much energy in these feelings and I ended up attracting this.
        I’m Gonna read the articles you sent and reflect about all you said.
        All you said is right. I need to stop struggling and believe in it!
        Thanks for being so so helpful!!

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  2. Hi. Thank you for all your wonderful posts. I require some assistance. I was with an amazing person for the last few years. We had an amazing relationship and marraige plans were in the pipe line.

    Then suddenly my significant other’s family started to dislike me and spoke badly of me to others. We remained together for a while, but the pressure became too much as we had to be separated when his family was around. It was like having a secret relationship.

    Eventually my special person decided to end things as feelings towards me have changed. He said he did not love me anymore and wanted to move on with someone else. I was devastated. I feel this is the love of my life.

    I have been trying to remain positive for months now but my thoughts of what he said keeps getting the better of me.

    Will i be able to get him back? How will we be able to get around the family issues in this case?


    1. Dear Cammi,
      You are very welcome 🙂 You are able to get him back and manifest having a good relationship with his family. With the Law of Attraction, you are able to do anything.
      Now, the first problem here is that your confidence was damaged by their words and his actions hurt you. Therefore, the first step is to accept that you have had this experience, forgive yourself for it and then, forgive your ex and his family for it. I know this sounds a little crazy right now but believe me, forgiveness was personally an issue for me but once I mastered it, I gained a new understanding of myself and others. Accepting that your experience was what it was is the first step to changing it. Think very hard about why all this upset you (as stupid as it sounds right now but it’s an important thing to do, you’ll see), why his reaction upset you, why his family’s opinion did, too. Face these answers. Then, you can start working on forgiving yourself and all of them for this happening.
      The next thing is, you have to learn to love yourself again. This experience has nothing to do with who you are – our reactions and actions are the result of our history and OUR experiences therefore their reaction had much more to do with them than it did with you. You have to accept that you are an amazing person who deserves to have everything. Your self confidence needs a reboot and you need to start believing you are an amazing person again. When it comes to the Law of Attraction, we create by focusing on ourselves – our feelings, our self confidence, our happiness… Because what we receive is what we feel worthy and deserving of. Do you see what I mean?
      Then, visualizing your desired reality, you two in love and his family approving of it, happy that you’re together and you two being back on track with the wedding plans, that will become easier to see once you’ve reminded yourself that you deserve it. It doesn’t matter how this manifests at all because only focusing on that result and knowing it’s yours will bring it to life. Know it unconditionally because when you’re focused on your desire, when you KNOW it’s yours, things happen so fast, you can hardly believe it. Focusing on BEING with him and getting along with his family, knowing that this is yours and feeling happy and grateful for it as well as feeling gratitude for everything else in life will bring about your desired reality. Don’t worry about the getting him back part or how you will get around the family issue because that’s a question of “how” which thankfully is the Universe’s job, not ours 🙂
      I know you can do this.


  3. Hi Nina,

    your posts are a great read and extremely helpful.

    I read somewhere that when manifesting it helps to give a sort of deadline to the desire, like a birthday or months, What are your thoughts on that?

    And can you tell me how EXACTLY to tap into one’s heart energy and use it?

    My boyfriend and I were on the verge of getting engaged, he wanted to make it a long term relationship, our feelings for each other did not and i believe still have not changed. We ended the relationship only because his job and financial situation wasn’t sound and his parents believed that he should focus on his job stability. I still believe we are meant to be, our souls mirror each other. Having said that, at times i do feel my vibration to be low and just tell myself and the Universe to IGNORE my thoughts of doubt and negativity during that time because I really dont believe them or mean them.


    1. Hello! First of all, thank you so much 🙂

      I honestly don’t think about time, I have to say. A desire are yours the second you ask for it, as it already exists in a parallel reality. By maintaining a vibrational alignment with it (feeling that you have it already, feeling gratitude and positive emotion for it), you simply cross into the reality in which it was already created. If I think about it, time can only be good if it motivates you to give POSITIVE emotion to your desire and help you maintain the feeling of knowing that you have it already but never to put pressure on you. This is why a time deadline is delicate to dabble in.

      When it comes to heart energy, I learned the most from this website and these specific articles:



      Send it to both your love and your ideal relationship 🙂 Fill yourself with heart energy and send it out!

      It is good that you communicate with the Universe but you will also do your part by changing the way you look at things and becoming positive and happy about living your dreams 🙂 Visualize and feel the love for your ideal relationship. You can do this 🙂


  4. Thank you. 🙂

    I have read the posts on that website before [they help keep a positive feeling], but couldn’t really understand the heart energy bit too clearly. I think meditation is key and for someone who is new to it, practice.

    look forward to more of your posts [ to keep me focused on the HOWs of manifesting my specific someone].

    Thanks, once again.

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    1. You’re welcome 🙂 I would definitely recommend practicing it using these two articles to start with as well as meditation – I meditate and love it!


  5. Hi Nina,

    What do you think is the difference between manifesting seperate events vs. relationship we want? I think that is the mistake I made in past too, but I’m trying to figure out what would be the difference in my technique or what I should change?

    Thank you,


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