One of my closest friends met one of her personal heroes only days ago. A sports star she respects for his talent, accomplishments and an origin close to her own, she aimed to use the Law of Attraction to manifest meeting him.
She’d said to herself that she would meet him and then, let the whole thing go. Relying on one of our past conversation during which she was reminded of letting go being the fastest manifestation formula, she relied on the notion that if she believed and genuinely felt great in the meantime, she would receive her desire. Regardless of her sports hero being a busy world traveler, she believed in meeting him; after each time the idea would enter her mind, she decided to believe and let it go.
She relied on the idea that if able to let it go, she had to receive her desire. She knew that with anything in life, the ability to breathe easy around it happens when one believes in having it.
To recap, what does letting go mean? It means knowing that one’s desire belongs to them already based on their decision to have it and their belief in receiving it. Beyond belief, their determination in the positive outcome causing the knowing that it simply must happen! Once this knowing has been established in one’s mind, they are able to relax, live their life and do their thing, knowing their desire is going to manifest.
Since letting go made her feel great, she was able to channel a great deal of passion into her desire. She focused on living the kind of life she loves. Since giving to others makes us happy and therefore allows the happiness to come back to us, she found great joy in helping her friends with anything she could. Work went smoothly for her because she was making a continuous effort to feel positively about everything in her life; for the same reason, she dove into specific activities which she enjoys profoundly.
Throughout this period of her life, she realized how amazing focusing on her happiness truly felt. Putting guilt-inducing obligations or the comfort of others before her own in the past, she now realized how much giving to herself and her own happiness truly meant. She realized it was was worth it to focus on her own happiness first because it had made her feel increasingly good about herself. In addition, she had removed any negative individuals from her inner circle and one from her life entirely.
She kept in mind that keeping her vibration high was her responsibility. Every time she had a moment of doubt, she had said to herself, “It has to happen, it is possible!” Then, she would shift her focus to something she loved and wanted to do that moment.
After letting her desire go, she also realized that only then did it start to seem possible.
While attached to a desire, one fails to connect with it profoundly, trying to make it feel “perfect” in their mind instead. This type of attachment results in a continuous battle between one’s positive and negative thoughts, causing slow progress or none at all. Thinking you could never be happy without your desire in your life causes you to continue to be unhappy without it.
Being able to be happy now, before receiving your desire yet knowing it is yours already, ensures manifestation.
Feeling that her desire was possible made it feel normal in her mind. She was still filled with happiness at the idea of having her desire but that happiness and normalcy made her desire feel like a regular thing in her life. At the same time, she felt increasingly happy because she was doing things for herself. Every time she had helped somebody else, she helped herself. We get what we give.
She simply refused to give her focus to anything but her happy existence.
During this time, she also saw almost no signs connected to her desire. However, she chose to believe anyway. She chose to feel great regardless!
One day, she went shopping with a friend when a salesgirl told them that her favorite player’s team is scheduled to do a meet-and-greet at one of their stores the following morning. She was there and so was he; they met, chatted, took photos together and he signed an autograph for her. This entire event felt absolutely normal to her while making her happy; it felt like a perfectly natural thing to happen to her.
When knowing one’s desire belongs to them already or even just believing it is to be, it feels normal. Even when charged with positive emotion, one is not surprised it happened to them, as they saw it coming. They expected it to happen.
After the salesgirl had told her about the appearance, she saw several signs.
Signs follow awareness.
Regardless of lacking in signs, she sometimes hoped and other times, knew her desire would come to be while trying to consciously put it out of her mind because letting go entirely made her feel good. When it would come to mind, she felt good about her desire for a minute and then, let it go.
She had said to herself that they should meet on October 22nd. They met on November 14th. Time was no issue in her mind and her desire manifested fast as a result.
Focusing on factors such as time is enough to make any conscious manifestation practitioner unhappy. Focusing on time shows one’s disbelief in receiving their desire.
I call this story a classic manifestation because of its sheer simplicity. This story shows how little work it all takes; focusing on life, love, yourself and your happiness is all it takes. Any manifestation of any desire works according to the same principle in life and you can apply these very steps to absolutely anything you desire.
The difference between having your desire in your mind already and waiting for it lies in living your life. If you don’t know what makes you happy, find it. If you feel that something is missing, you have to find it within yourself, within your own life; you have to find it in order to share it with anyone else.
Nina, huge question. How do I manifest checks with the exact amount I want? Like how would I go to the end results in this situation? I printed out abundance checks a couple weeks ago, but I don’t feel it real. Help?
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You can choose to stick with the checks but don’t see them as “I have to receive a check with that amount.” Just be grateful for HAVING that money, with or without the check (you might receive cash or a bank transfer instead). When you relax around the specific idea of a check, you might even see it being real.
Another way you could go is love spending that money in your mind. Plan how you’re going to spend it and love it π Be grateful that you can! I do that, plan the spending, treating my parents and friends, donating to charity…
I have a thought of the day post about manifesting money, you’ll see it if you open the category. I wrote it recently, last month or so.
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so can I imagine seeing a lot of money in my account or still focus on having the money and being grateful? Like sometimes I imagine seeing five figures in my checking account and smiling knowing I’m wealthy and can afford whatever I want
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Yes. Sounds great!
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And I reread the thought of the day post. Was very helpful btw. I just want to get LOA absolutely correct so that manifesting what I want comes to me very easy. I want my vibration to be high and my desires come instantly. I don’t want to fake anything especially when I’m not aware of faking it. I just want people around me to always react “you’re the luckiest person I know!” Like I always let go when thinking about being back together with my ex by visualizing how I want our relationship to be and being grateful we are together. And also visualizing my friends telling me “congratulations to you two!” Or asking me “how does it feel to be back together?” I always believe we are meant to be because I honestly feel like I was meant to be in his life and I did pray to God for someone like him. I’m sorry if I’m a bit into my feelings.
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All good but the way to do it correctly is to genuinely be convinced that your desire is yours and being happy as well as grateful for it. Good feelings about your desire are the only thing necessary for doing LoA correctly… And those good feelings mean being convinced that you have it, feeling great about it, being happy and grateful for it π
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A new money affirmation up for you today!
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You’re amazing! Thanks a bunch!
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Happy to and thank you! π
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Dear Nina,
after visualizing vividly, and you reach a point, when the image cross your mind you feel thankful and just normal not like before in the first vision, it is feel just fine, calm and thankful not less thsn good, is it normal !! Or should the person keep feel strongly like before !! I have bought both of your books, and i loved them, so you said that sometimss your conscious mind is trying to convince you that ahhhhh you don’t want your desire anymore ! Because you don’t feel yuu need anymore (letting go) ! Would you explain both points please
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Hi! And thank you π If you consciously believe that it has to manifest but feel calm instead of excited, that’s great. Persistently believing until you manifest is crucial! If you choose to believe but have lost the need to see proof because you know it’s happening even when you can’t see it, that’s great and don’t worry about the rest.
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