Are You Comfortable With Relationships and Your Specific Person?

Do you feel comfortable interacting with the person you have feelings for? With those you are generally interested in? Or, do you feel tense, nervous or just plain scared about talking to the person of your choice? Are you afraid you might get hurt or do you welcome any interaction with those you are interested in, wanting to get to know them even better?

When you think about your specific person coming for you, wanting to be in a relationship with you, do you feel excited or scared? Do you feel ready for it or not?

The answers to these questions will decide whether an interaction with the person you are interested in presents a happy or an exhausting event for you.

If an interaction with the person you are interested in or have feelings for presents conflicting feelings for you, you are not alone. Many have had questions about removing the fear of interacting with someone with enjoyment instead of fearing what could go wrong (which they do due to a lack of comfort).

How can good courtship advice translate into good LoA advice?

Firstly you must know that comfort in receiving a relationship you have asked for makes manifestation happen. Feeling comfortable about living your desire removes resistance.

On the other hand…

If you feel uneasy at the thought of receiving and living your desire now, a part of you is preventing manifestation and thinking of paranoid scenarios instead of letting go to receive. This is a problem when manifesting relationships with the people you feel at least partially negatively about –  exes usually fall into this category. This might also happen with new people you don’t know that much about but you should assume the best about them.

If you feel good about the person you want, you can see yourself with them; if you feel uneasy about them for any reason, tendency to fall into negative thoughts with little to no basis in reality might take over. If you aren’t entirely comfortable around the person you want to manifest a relationship with, you might become slightly negative and entertain paranoid thoughts. 

Once you become comfortable with yourself, your qualities and everything you have to offer, you will be comfortable at the thought of being with your specific person. You will be excited instead of nervous!


Good relationship tips are based on good self confidence tips, just like anything else. Self confidence leads to self comfort which makes you comfortable with manifesting and living your desires. Comfort means no resistance, right?

Self love plays into all of that perfectly as it increases self confidence as well as self comfort.

When becoming interested in a man, I want to get to know him even better. However, others have told me they fear getting to know the people they’re interested in, in fear of learning something they might dislike; this mindset probably comes from loneliness and wanting to finally manifest something with someone instead of “having to give up” yet again.

Beware – feeling lonely while wanting to manifest a relationship throws off your intention so give into the feeling of living your relationship 100%! Don’t be afraid. Loneliness makes focusing on your desired reality difficult and puts pressure on your interactions with the people you are interested in while you fear that you might ruin everything and continue to go through life alone.

To some, relationship happiness and safety are foreign. Occasionally, they visualize and actually feel happiness in the relationship they want to manifest but are not used to feeling satisfaction from a happy relationship. To some, this makes it difficult to visualize a happy relationship; to those who are determined and ready to use their imagination as well as connect to their natural manifesting abilities, nothing is a problem. The latter group is ready to do whatever it takes to manifest their desires.

I have observed that both men and women are largely uncomfortable with the prospect of relationships. More than ever, many assume that the person they are interested in would fail to reciprocate, at least fully. Some others struggle with other issues, such as not being excited about relationships in general.

In truth, a lack of relationship excitement has to do with one’s inner self, not relationships. We produce the circumstances we feel so if one isn’t excited about relationships, one has to resolve their own limiting beliefs and inner obstacles.

Published by Nina Grdic

Life coach, writer, lifelong traveler, music lover and confidence/positivity/Law of Attraction expert.

4 thoughts on “Are You Comfortable With Relationships and Your Specific Person?

  1. I have been studying LOA for about a year now. I’ve read almost all of Goddard’s works but it wasn’t until I found your page that things started to make more sense. You’ve hit the nail on the head when it comes to addressing all my fears. It’s like you’ve read my mind. My main issue is believing that my desire belongs to me already.
    My desire came upon me a year ago. For about 10 years, I’ve been really interested in Argentina and Latin America (I live in Italy) but for some reason Argentina had a bigger place in my heart. I even studying on my own in order to some day get a doctorate in Latin American Studies (my other desire). For a while I started to studying Greek and was looking for a tutor. One of my students (I teach English) said oh I have a surprise for you the intern at my school is from Cyprus. Well she got her number and I tried to contact her for lessons but nothing happened. One afternoon my student was surfing this girl’s facebook and came upon a picture of her with a woman, who happened to be her aunt, who lives in Argentina. The moment I saw that woman I knew she was the one. To this day my student still remembers the look in my eyes when I first saw the picture.


    1. That is such a wonderful story! Thank you so much for sharing it 😀 I am so thrilled to hear about such happiness in your life!


  2. Thank you for your response. I’m glad you liked my story. I also bought your book. It really helped to realize if she is really the one. I know I must be patient for it to manifest. Sometimes I think it’s too good to be true. Sometimes I feel her so close that I can smell her but soon after that I get paranoid and worry about her with someone else. I’ve never made any contact because something tells me to hold my horses. You know just yesterday morning I said, “God give me a sign that this is the right path. in the evening I was speaking to one of my students who lived in Australia and he just happened to tell me about a friend of his there (Argentinian) is gay. Out of the blue. I had to ask him to repeat where the guy was from. Tomorrow is her birthday and I think I’m a bit anxious because I’m wondering what she’ll do. I know just imagine that I’m celebrating with her.

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    1. Imagine your desired reality with her and completely ignore the current 😀 If you notice your current reality, it could slow down your manifestation so avoid the temptation.
      I am so grateful the book helped! Feeling her THAT close is amazing, a great sign! Just keep believing! 😀


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