Rely on Yourself and Focus on the Positive

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  1. Hi Nina,

    Thank you for this article. It really reminded me to stop thinking of what to do to manifest what I want and just let go. I think this is the hardest part for me…letting go. I do believe that I’ll get what I want and it’s done, but I always feel like I’m waiting – and I know that waiting means even more waiting. How do we let go and how do we stop focusing on our current reality? I just want to stop thinking about it and being “obsessed” with what I want.


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    1. Hi!! So happy to help πŸ™‚ The answer is to focus on what you want to be living in your mind – this is why visualization is so useful – and that’s all you need to do in order to allow your negative thoughts to leave. Ignoring your negative thoughts and need, and choosing to believe and enjoy visualizations of your desired reality will take away all your negative thoughts. Relying on your decisions of receiving what you want is necessary in order to receive it – engaging in your negative feelings or relying on your current reality in deciding what’s “possible” for you only allows you to manifest what you don’t want or more of what is.
      When you get used to seeing your desired reality in your mind, you will believe that it is yours and you will allow it to manifest. Stick to your decisions and make a point of believing while ignoring your negative thoughts. Let them be and don’t give them any power because engaging in your negative thoughts or affirming that they are there and you feel like you can’t get rid of them, affirming that they bother you, will only make them stay, grow and prevent you from manifesting what you want.
      I know that you’re aware of your need being a sign of NOT having your desire but as long as you practice seeing your desire in your mind, as if it has manifested already, you will get used to it and your negative thoughts will disappear which will allow you to let go.
      Every time negative thoughts or need come to you, just say, “It’s mine,” rely on the Universe giving you what you want because you have asked for it and be happy πŸ™‚


  2. Hi Nina,

    So I manifested my ex…we ran into each other. It was fun and flirty and I really didn’t expect anything to happen. I didn’t bring up the relationship or wanting to be in a relationship and just enjoyed myself. But after that my emotions took a nosedive…any advise on what I can do? I’m at that point where I don’t want to feel this way anymore…I don’t want to want this anymore.


    1. I know I’ve read that this is he law of attraction, that you create your own reality and you have to focus on what you want? I believe in the process but I find it hard to believe in this process when it comes to manifesting a relationship with a specific person. What if the other person is stubborn and doesn’t want it? Like what I said, in my situation feelings of love and caring are there but the relationship is not manifesting. I know you can’t make anyone do anything.


      1. You’re not making the other person do anything – you are attracting them with love πŸ™‚ When attracting new people, I imagine making them happier than they have ever been, or at least ecstatic about us being in each other’s lives. I imagine them being as grateful as I am for us to be in each other’s lives because I bring happiness, fun and love into theirs and I make them happy. I like to think it’s all about bringing something of great value into the life of another person πŸ™‚ See what I mean?
        Feel good about yourself and when you imagine that you are irreplaceable to your ex, you will be.


    2. Two things – ask yourself whether being with your ex is what you truly want and if it is, continue to focus on your desired end result without thinking about how it should manifest now that you have seen each other. When a desire starts to manifest, some create expectations of how it should continue to manifest from then on and if it doesn’t, their vibration drops. Don’t do that – just focus on your end result until you reach it.


  3. Hi Nina,

    Thank you for the quick reply!

    I definitely know what you mean about bringing happiness into that person’s life because that’s how I feel. I’ve asked myself why I want to be with him and although he brings happiness into my life, I know that I want to bring excitement, happiness, and joy into his and that I can enrich his life. Oh and I definitely know I’m irreplaceable to him. πŸ˜‰

    Thank you again, Nina!

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