Do you fear losing what you have or worse, losing your desired manifestation before you attract it?
Fear of loss (or, fear of failure, if you prefer) usually happens after experiencing an unexpected loss in life – loss of a job, a relationship or one’s happiness or confidence at the least expected moment. The moment one finds oneself blindsided by something they thought would never happen to them, usually a break-up or something of similar magnitude – big enough to cause confidence issues but not so big that the damage is irreversible – fear of loss is created, causing insecurity and self-doubt. And when it comes to manifesting one’s desires, fear of loss works even before one manifests their desire, keeping it at arm’s length.
One’s desired manifestation is closer than they think but the fear of loss keeps it from manifesting in the first place.
I don’t want to say that you can’t lose what you never had in the first place because you can have anything you want if you believe it; however, I will say that the desire to have specific things in life always comes with fear if it stems from need.
A desire to manifest and the need to do so are two very different energies.
The solution is to use visualization and positive feelings to create the feeling of having your desire already – choosing to have faith in the Universe makes you lose the need to see results which is exactly when you finally see them.
And this choice is made by consciously refocusing to the belief that having your desire is a done deal whenever you find yourself wondering about its probability.
Even if you doubt that changing your belief could get you there, what have you got to lose if you just try to change it?
If you feel that you don’t have what you want, you might as well try and believe that you could. Ultimately, if you can’t believe, you will be in the same place you are now. But what if you could? What if you try and think positive and find out that it works for you?