Sometimes, I think we should look at Law of Attraction as a lifestyle and other times, I don’t. Usually, I come to a conclusion that we should look at it as a lifestyle whenever it amuses us and when it doesn’t, we simply shouldn’t.
We want to look at LoA as a lifestyle but we don’t want to put pressure on ourselves. We want to enjoy manifestation but not feel pressured to manifest a million different things every single day. We should simply enjoy manifesting our goals.
However, I will implement a lifestyle category in this blog for future manifestation stories.
And now, let’s go back to a story I once posted but wanted to update with additional LoA lessons, as I understand even more now than I did back then.
I once manifested seeing a specific person on a specific night. I had seen and spoken to this person several times but wanted to get to know them better and one night, I decided to make it happen.
One Friday night seven years ago, I was on my way into town. I was going to a concert with several friends, listening to music on the way and suddenly decided that it was time for me to see this person that very same night. Then, I selected a song on my playlist that was my happy tune, one which reminded me that I can do anything if only I believed it.
Before and during the concert, many things just aligned. My concert buddies were at our meeting spot in time (and these individuals never valued punctuality, openly stating its uselessness often) and my view was relatively unobstructed through the venue crowd. Afterwards, I decided that I was going to run into the person I had chosen to see and at that point, I had been repeating it to myself continuously for about three hours. All of a sudden, I realized that all I had to do was have fun and go to the places I genuinely felt like going to after the concert, and our paths would cross.
I met up with friends at a bar I used to work at, to start. I had a great time for the most part, even though it included fending off one or two mildly annoying drunks. However, not every detail has to be perfect so one should not allow for that to derail them. I stayed at this bar for as long as I felt like it and then, proceeded to another bar owned by a close friend.
Upon walking in, I spotted a friend of the person I wanted to run into, one I have known for years. I said to myself, “This is a sign!” We sat together and joked together with my friend. Then, another friend of the person I wanted to meet walked in! All the while, I had been saying to myself, “I decided it’s going to happen so we’re seeing each other tonight!” My motivation was strong and whenever I felt like I could potentially waiver, I pulled myself back up. This person also joined the group for about fifteen minutes, and then…
Another friend of the person I wanted to meet walked in and walked up our group, saying, “Guess who’s downstairs?” It was the person I had decided to run into. The two of them were apparently hanging out at a friend’s house, were on their way home and then, ran into someone who persuaded them to go out instead.
And they showed up at the bar I was in.
All these years later, this story still gives me lessons. You can direct your passion and motivation into a manifestation or you can simply address it calmly, depending on the way that makes you feel good. I was thinking about my manifestation with immense motivation and desire but only because it had come to me naturally. Sometimes, I will say that I want something calmly and also manifest it on the same day – it’s all about enjoying the energy that makes you feel good.
Letting go is about feeling good – you either think about your desire or you don’t, whichever makes you feel good! In this case, I thought about seeing this person on that very night throughout the entire night because it was making me feel good and had given me comfort in my manifestation. Plenty of times in life, I will ask for something but feel good not thinking about it or forgetting all about it instead. It’s all about knowing what letting go truly means, and it means thinking about whatever it is that makes you happy, that being your desire or anything else. You don’t have to think about your desire all the time to manifest it – even just once is enough.
If you choose to not think about your desire, that doesn’t mean you won’t attract. You can live as if but then move on to thinking about other things in life, living as if whenever your desire comes to mind or simply doing so for a brief time and then letting it all go.
Another thing I had been thinking that entire night – “We both want to see each other very much.” I had decided it and stuck to it. I still use the same method today. By deciding that what you want is yours, mutual desire is implied so I would always recommend that you use this in every manifestation. Decide it and stick to it – whatever you decide is a done deal will be so and whatever you decide is false and powerless will be so as well.
This story is one of my favorite examples of the Law of Attraction lifestyle. What are yours?
Please share your own preferred manifestation methods in the comments!
And have a wonderful day.
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What a wonderful story, Nina. 🙂
In the past year, since I am practicing LoA conciously, I was able to manifest different specific people for different reasons. Mostly specific foreigners and friends. And with everytime I understand a little bit more, what letting go means, what it feels like. I set the intention, and then I let the universe taking care of it. I don’t need to tell any reason for my wish, I don’t need to justify my desire. In every case I simply knew it will come, because I asked for it.
I was also able to manifest specific events I daydreamed about or all the small things in life which make me happy.
I am so greatful for this journey full of magic.
It reminds me a lot of my journey with lucid dreaming. When I learned to have many lucid dreams, I wanted to control them because it was fun. But with every dream I also started to enjoy the experience itself and to observe what will happen, what my subconcious is creating on its own. So, I love letting go of the control, because I love the surprise.
With my love, I recently experienced something that could easily be seen as a setback, but I decided, that this will actually lead to something more beautiful between us. This thought alone feels so much better and I don’t want to give away this feeling for any negative thought anymore.
I see my resistance in my health issue. I want to manifest back my health and I can’t see myself in a happy relationship, before I am healthy again. I know, that this might be just a wrong belief and maybe I underastimate the power of the universe, that both things can be resolved at the same time in a wonderful magical way. With all these wonderful things in my life, I still resist the state of “healthy and happy in a relationship.” But this can’t be too much to ask for! 😀
But then, whenever I see myself looping in negativity again, I switch back to my heart, where is only love. I understand, that there is no use in worring about anything. I want to share love in every moment, no matter what. 🙂
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Nothing is too much to ask for! 😀
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Hi thank you for sharing-
As I am learning more about LOA, I find the best way for me is to think about my desires, and when I do I visualize and trust that is mine and let go. my main problem was letting go I was too attached to the outcome I felt I had to control everything otherwise it wouldn’t happen for me, it was not easy for me to trust and all this was a result of past experiences but then I asked myself why go the same road if it didn’t work for me? why fall under the same pattern? that was me then but now is now.
I made a decision to open my heart and allow myself to love and feel love, I made a decision to let go of fears and doubts I said enough already, I choose my dream, I choose to attract my specific person and let the universe handle it. So to me what works is to decide what you really want-focus on the end result always and trust.
As a result I’m getting many signs from the universe and what I do is stop and say thank you.
This blog has helped me a lot too thank you Nina for all your support.
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I LOVE those questions!! You are so right – why do it? Amazing 😀
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Hi Nina
I read somewhere that sometimes when manifesting what we want we must take action as well.
in my case I’m working with Loa to manifest a relationship with a specific person how can I know that the impulse to act comes from the universe and not my old self trying to control things?
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Hello Nina 🙂
I have a Question: what should i do when the man i want to be With has a girlfriend?:(
I heard about it today:( should i give him up, or believe despite of this, and hope that they will break up and we will be together?:)
Thank You 🙂
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Hi Tia. It doesn’t matter what situation the person is in but if you believe that this is wrong or could be a problem, that presents a manifesting block. You can manifest being with anyone but you have to be sure you are doing the right thing xx
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Thank you 😘😘😘
So i should not worry about his girlfriend even when they are serious and he loves her and not interested in me? Can we still be together soon?:)
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Hello Nina,
It turns out my specific person maybe doesnt have a girlfriend, but maybe he is gay!!! I dont know, maybe he is straight, but even if he is gay, can i still manifest him as a straight man, who is in love With me?
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Yes. You can manifest him in love with you no matter what, if you really want it and see the two of you together, believing it’s a done deal. But only if you truly believe it!
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Sooo, after a photoshoot, myself and friends went to a nearby restaurant/bar. It was our first time there and we were just enjoying our meals. Well, when we left I noticed a guy leaves when we do and walks behind me immediately, it seemed to be calculated. Well opening the door as he walks behind, he says thank you, I look back and he was gorgeous!! It throw me off and I didn’t respond. I just had to say something once I cleared my head. I made a remark “…maybe we should get in the car with him!” But he proceeds to jump in his car, no words.
Well my friends told me, he was looking in my direction ALL night, again I didn’t notice him at all til we left the restaurant! They believe he was trying to get my attention! But why didn’t he respond? Did I throw him off as well?
Anyways I’m manifesting this man to be there again so we can actually exchange numbers and court each other’s! I asked another guy if he’d go back to a place in hopes to see a girl her want to approach again and he said “thirsty me would say yeah, regular me would say no” I’m getting 50/50 responses but I FEEL he would be there. I dislike regrets but I will let go if I don’t see him again just meant the universe didn’t align us and I’m st peace thinking of it that way!
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Hi! He might have not expected that you would actually speak to each other so he might not have known what to say. I say, visualize the two of you just talking in a bar over a glass of wine and the details will work themselves out! Enjoy these visualizations and then just live your life, and before you know it, the reality will align with your mind!
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