Hi everyone, and happy Valentine’s Day to each and every one of you! I’m sending you all a hug and a kiss! And I know you’re constantly manifesting the life you want, every single day. We are in the flow, and the law of attraction is working for us all the time – this is a great affirmation/mindset we should keep on hand every day!

You might be a reader (or a client) who’s in a relationship. You might be one whose relationship manifestation hasn’t yet completed in the current reality. You might be celebrating yourself today without consciously trying to attract a relationship. Whatever your situation is, I want you to affirm that relationships are easy for you, and you could be in one or single because you can have whatever you want!

However, neither single nor attached life will be a happy one without a strong foundation of self-love. You might think this is cliché but they exist for a reason.

Let’s make this particular cliché a little more fun.

In my opinion, every time we want to “figure out” how to manifest a desire, it comes from being uncertain about who we are. If we know ourselves, we are comfortable with being alone or in a relationship, and it’s easy to face our negative feelings as well as know the reasons for them. If we don’t love ourselves, we tend to scramble with self-criticism at a delayed manifestation of our desires which inevitably invokes doubt in the law of attraction and our deservingness.

Heavy, right? Well, here comes the fun part.

When we love ourselves, we realize that we don’t need another person to love us. Not everyone loves us but we simply don’t care about that because we respect most people for who they are. They can love us or not and believe me, if you don’t believe your person loves you yet, you can simply start building the belief in their love by engaging with your ideal reality instead of the current. If you love yourself but your ideal partner hasn’t noticed you yet, you won’t mind because you’ll know that universe is changing this. If you are currently manifesting a relationship, you should keep this in mind.

If you’re in a relationship, self-love can flourish with the good times and wane with disagreements. Don’t let it happen. You don’t have to prove anything to anyone, not even your partner. Your partner might not understand something today but if you have faith, the understanding will come. Laugh at silly mistakes and don’t engage in their escalation. Your steady positive energy will influence your partner.

If you are single, you should utilize the blessing of having the space and privacy to peacefully cultivate your self-love. You have the luxury of protecting your energy easily, with a much smaller chance of an argument with someone derailing your focus. Use this! You are your own voice of confidence, and you should happily affirm the best about yourself.

If you are currently manifesting a relationship, keep moving forward. Don’t ever lose faith because there isn’t any reason to – remember that, and your manifestation process will suddenly become much easier! If you are single by choice, remember that you can remain single or start a relationship if you want, because life is supposed to be tailored to you and not the other way around. If you’re in a relationship, remember that you still have to love yourself first for that relationship to remain successful.

Life is yours for loving and taking.