Good afternoon, everyone! I hope you’re having a wonderful day, and happy belated Easter to all those celebrating!
Even if you aren’t having a wonderful day yet, reading this is an opportunity to change that; for this reason, I’ve decided to talk about boosting your manifesting power (and the power of law of attraction to start working for you) by disconnecting from negative thoughts and the current reality – especially if you’ve been distracted by its events lately and tried to reset your mind because you want instant results!
Notice how I stated this? Can you hear it in the voice of a cranky toddler?
“I want this now!”
And if you don’t get it now, everything is wrong and a tantrum ensues.
Inadvertently, our reaction can be similar if we fall into the trap of wanting instant results in the current reality, nurturing focus on the present instead of the ideal. In order to manifest, we can’t give into such a reaction – just like it doesn’t pay off for a toddler, it won’t pay off for us.
isn’t wanting instant results the same as expecting them?
No. Not at all.
Wanting instant results is the complete opposite of expecting instant results. Expectations comes from confidence in the inevitability of one’s desire; wanting to see it now comes from impatience and the insecurity of ever seeing it.
The problem with wanting instant manifesting results is that our thoughts aren’t always positive enough to attract them. Ultimately, wanting instant results comes down to trying to wrangle the current reality instead of focusing on the ideal, and it’s based in uncertainty instead of expectation.
The problem with wanting instant manifesting results is that our thoughts aren’t always positive enough to attract them.Tweet
Then, what is expectation? Expectation is the knowing that your desire is inevitable so, naturally, you expect to receive it. What else could possibly happen since it’s inevitable? The only thing that can happen!
You don’t expect to receive the opposite of what you want if your belief is strong! Strong belief leads to strong expectation and the assumption of having our desire. On the other hand, wanting instant results (and looking for them!) means you feel like you don’t have your desire. You’re focusing on what you don’t want!
It’s very important to know this distinction and possess introspection about your true belief. The difference between wanting and expecting instant results depends on receiving them. Those who possess the belief in their desire manifesting don’t look for the results – they already know their desire is a done deal! And if you know, why look, right? On the other hand, those who live in the constant wanting to see instant results are deeply aware of an uncertainty in their desires. They aren’t sure of receiving them and they need to repair their focus and belief for things to start changing.
why aren’t my thoughts positive enough to attract instant results?
Wanting to see results now comes from a fundamental belief that you haven’t seen them yet.
What does that mean?
It means that you are focusing on having not seen them yet instead of visualizing living them!
Your visualizations, affirmations and/or overall belief must be stronger than your thoughts about the current reality; you have to be happier about living your desire than you’re frustrated about the current reality. Even if you can’t fully ignore your current reality just yet, your happy thoughts and feelings when thinking about having your desire in your ideal reality must be stronger than your feelings whenever you notice the absence of your desire in the physical world.
Your visualizations, affirmations and/or overall belief must be stronger than your thoughts about the current reality; you have to be happier about living your desire than you’re frustrated about the current reality.Tweet
will it take long for me to see results of my desire manifesting?
In short – the more clear your focus on the ideal is and the stronger your positive thoughts feel, the shorter it will take.
Law of Attraction bible, The Secret, tells us that the more we live in love, the faster our life will transform. Positive thoughts and feelings are rooted in love! We can think and feel them for everything we appreciate in the current reality and every desire we have as we visualize living it!
The more we focus on and feel love and gratitude, the faster our desires will align with reality. That’s why people write gratitude list – to boost love and positive thoughts.
Another great way of feeling love is loving ourselves! This is my signature advice. Loving ourselves makes us believe we deserve our desires, which in turn makes it easier to believe in their inevitability. Imagine how good it must feel to love yourself and live life actually being happy and comfortable with yourself! While everything else just comes together for you? I don’t know anyone who would say no to that!
The belief in the inevitability of our desires comes from being able to see ourselves living them! And feelings of love help create that clarity. They allow our minds to focus on everything that makes us happy! When we feel love, our minds and hearts open up to whatever we feel that love for. Feelings are incredibly powerful.
The belief in the inevitability of our desires comes from being able to see ourselves living them! And feelings of love help create that clarity. They allow our minds to focus on everything that makes us happy! When we feel love, our minds and hearts open up to whatever we feel that love for. Feelings are incredibly powerful.Tweet
Neville Goddard said the same – the more clearly we can see ourselves living our desires, the faster they will manifest. We can amplify that clarity with feelings, thoughts, visualizations or all of the above. It’s all about allowing our awareness to absorb the focus on our ideal scenarios, and manifest them in the current reality.
Clarity of visualization, love, positive emotion and affirmations will inevitably lead you to belief and manifestation.
This is how you stop wanting instant results and start experiencing them!