Are you preventing self-love with negative self-talk?
I didn't want a serious relationship in high school - I wanted a jet-setting lifestyle. And nothing would stop me.
How can you trust that your desire belongs to you?
Individuals who don't drown in inhibition are attractive because their level of self-comfort makes them mysterious. Few dare to be entirely comfortable with their true self, especially their honest nature. Anyone that is instantly becomes enigmatic beyond belief.